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The Lake

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 29, 2008

We had a great time at the lake!  Jason and I went over on Saturday and met some of his family -Sister Misty, Bro in law Chad, Neices Ashleigh and Maci, and Nephew CJ-  We did the usual .. hang out on the boat all day, eat yummy food all night, repeat, repeat.

Here are some pics from our trip.

Jason and Roxie are ready for the lake.

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Chad, Maci, Ashleigh, CJ, Misty

Naked baby!

Me and Jason ride the sea-do

Maci was exhausted from all the fun!

Jason cooks yummy pork tenderloin

Maci helps her Uncle Jace

A boat lovin’ dog!

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Roxie, the life-guard pup

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 28, 2008

So I’ve talked before about Jason and I’s Jack Russell Terrior – Roxie Anna Special Puppy Dog Miller (that’s her full name)

She’s a precious pup, but we have our ups and downs with her.  One of the worst things about her is that she HATES the car.  She wines and carries on any time you put her in the car.  It’s rare that we take her anywhere bc she is just not manageable! 

This weekend Jason and I went back to the lake.  We went with his sister Misty, Chad, and their kids Ashleigh, Maci, and CJ (link to her blog to the right)  Anyway, we didn’t have anyone to keep Roxie, so we decided to take her with us.

The ride there was actually not that bad.  We called the vet and got a sedative that was just for the 3 hour trip and for her size.  It didn’t knock her out, but it made her crying more managable.  So we arrive at the Lake and we felt pretty good having tackled the car ride with the winey-est dog you will ever meet.  Now we wonder how she will act on the boat.  You see, we can’t leave her in the condo bc she is a little accident proned. 

So, we get on the dock, pick up the pup, and put her on the boat.  We start up the boat and off we go.  MUCH to our surprise she LOVES the boat!  She HATES sea-do’s and barks at every single one that passes us .. which is hilarious .. but you can tell she LOVES the wind in her face.  Cool!!  Success!!

The entiretly of the trip we are unable to get the dog in the water.  She seems curious, but not curious enough to make the plung.  We are good dog owner’s, so we don’t force her.

Fast forward and it’s Monday afternoon and the guys want to go to a rope swing and play on that for awhile.  The swing is on the random island in the middle of the lake.  So, we dock the boat on the muddy shore, and the guys make a short treck to the tree.  Roxie starts carrying on .. she’s barking so much it no longer sounds like a bark but a scream.  She obviously does NOT want him climbing up the tree.  As he heads up the tree she jumps off the boat and makes a B-LINE for Jason.  He continues to climb the tree all the while she is racing to catch him, barking the WHOLE time.  He takes off on the swing and before he can hit the water Roxie has high tailed it to him to ’save’ him.  I’ve never seen a dog swim that fast!!  She was SO concerned for his safety.  Once she saw he was ok, she turned back around and zoomed back to the shore.  It was the highlight of our weekend. 

I’m very proud of the pup.

HERE ARE THE PICS …

He’s ready to jump.

She ’saves’ him

One last look to make sure he’s ok.

Alright, he’s ok .. back to the shore

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Back to the Lake!!

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 23, 2008

Jason and I are going to the Lake this weekend for the Memorial Day Holiday!  Nothing but Sun, Water, and Yummy Food for us until Monday!  I was there last weekend for my girls trip and I’m just DYING to get back on the boat!!  I hope everyone has a GREAT MDH!

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Patience

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 21, 2008

There is a great good in bearing sorrow patiently: I don’t know that there is any virtue in sorrow just as such.  It is a Christian duty, as you know, for everyone to be as happy as he can.

- C.S. Lewis.

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I read the above quote on my former Pastor’s blog.  The best pastor ever Sam Shaw – link over there to the right.

 

In the recent months God has been teaching me patience.  This is a seemingly IMPOSSIBLE task.  I think God’s been trying to teach me patience since I was in the womb, seriously!  When my parents describe me as a child, along with being their favorite and an ABSOLUTE joy (JK, JK, JK),  they DEFINITELY describe me as ‘hard headed’ and ‘impatient’. 

 

It’s a struggle for me, FOR SURE!!  This impatience has gotten me in a lot of trouble, especially in the recent months.  It’s obvious that God is trying to teach me a lesson, and if I would just listen and be patient in Him the lesson could be taught at a pretty quick pace .. BUT bc I’m impatient I mess up His lesson and have heart-aches along the way.  Isn’t is so great though, that God NEVER runs out of patience for His children?  He will just keep thinking up ways to love us and teach us lessons!

 

So, the above quote taught me today to be patient even in the bad times, W-A-I-T on God, lean on Him, and He will see any circumstance through. 

 

 

 

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It’s Official, We’re Staying!!

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 20, 2008

Our house has been on the market for the last six months.  Although we have had a lot of showings and a good amount of traffic we haven’t had one offer.  Obviously God wants us to stay put and I am thankful for that guidance from Him!! :)   So, we are staying in our house!!! YEAH!! :)

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Things that don’t go together

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 20, 2008

A person driving a Mercedes Benz with a magnetic business logo on the doors of the car for a lawn and landscape service … one of these things is not like the other.

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Inappropriate Cell Phone Rings, at Inappropriate Times

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 20, 2008

So my boss (the Office Manager) is on her way out the door today to make a deposit at the bank.  Randomly, the Doctor is up at the front desk and him and the Office Manager cross paths and suddenly her cell phone BLARES “POOR SOME SUGAR ON ME.. COME ON AND FIRE ME UP” … heheheh!!

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When I Call on Jesus

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 19, 2008

As I’ve said in past blogs, I am going through some trials in my life right now.  There are days where I don’t see a ‘light at the end of the tunnel.’  I pray that it’s there, and I know it is, but it’s hard to calm my anxieties!  That’s when, by NO coincidence, I will be blessed with a song, scripture, or uplifting word from a Godly friend.  It seems like those little blessings are enough to push me through my bad days! 

I heard the lyrics on the way to work this morning and it was SUCH a blessing!!  I absolutely love this song!!!!  It reminds me that all things are possible if we just lean on Jesus!! Take a moment to read the lyrics.  I hope you are blessed too!!

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by Nicole C. Mullen – from “Talk About It”

Verse 1:
I’m so very ordinary, nothing special on my own.
Oh, I have never walked on water,
And I have never calmed a storm.
Sometimes I’m hiding away from the madness around me
Like a child who’s afraid of the dark

Chorus:
But when I call on Jesus,
All things are possible
I can mount on wings like eagles’ and soar
When I call on Jesus,
Mountains are gonna fall
‘Cause He’ll move heaven and earth to come rescue me when I call

La la la la la, la la la la la

Verse 2:
Weary brother, broken daughter,
widowed, widowed lover, you’re not alone
If you’re tired and scared of the madness around you
If you can’t find the strength to carry on

Chorus:
When you call on Jesus,
All things are possible
You can mount on wings like eagles’ and soar
When you call on Jesus,
Mountains are gonna fall
‘Cause He’ll move heaven and earth to come rescue you when you

Bridge:
Call Him in the mornin’, in the afternoon time
Late in the evenin’ He’ll be there
When your heart is broken,
And you feel discouraged,
You can just remember that He said
He’ll be there

Chorus:
When I call on Jesus,
All things are possible
I can mount on wings like eagles’ and soar
When I call on Jesus,
Mountains are gonna fall
‘Cause He’ll move heaven and earth to come rescue me

La la la la la, la la la la la, la la la la la-a-a

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Girls Trip!

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 19, 2008

We had a blast on our girls trip!  We ate yummy food, layed out on the boat on the lake all day, and went shopping .. it was your typical girls weekend!  I’m ready for the ‘09 trip!! :)

Here are some pics!

Me on the boat

Shannon, me, and Wendy

Kim, Misty, and Renee

Misty and me

Us being goofy!

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Girls Weekend!!

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 16, 2008

I’m off for a girls weekend!  I’m soooo exicted!!  I’ve never gone on a ‘girls only’ trip and I’m busting at the seams to get off work and hit the road!!  Pics to follow next week!!

 

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Vote in 2008 / Deciding on a Candidate

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 15, 2008

This years presidential election is a whole new ball game!  All sorts of issues are at stake .. the economy, Iraq, the Environment, Education, Health-care, Border Safety, and the list just goes on and on!!  So this election, more than any other, is SO important!!  So if you aren’t registered to vote, and you are of voting age (18+) .. GET REGISTERED!!!  Every Citizen of America has a right to vote and should exercise that right!  Otherwise, you have no right to complain about our next President and the state of our Nation.  Your opinion is voided if you don’t exercise your right to vote!  Also, if you are a woman and don’t vote, shame SHAME on you!  Do you know how long it took for us to get our voting rights???  Don’t even get me started!!

Ok, let me take a break!  :)

My next topic is choosing a candidate.  You see, this is the third election that has taken place since I’ve been of voting age.  Before that, I just didn’t care.  However, since I turned 18, I’m all about voting in presidential elections.  I voted for Bush for his first term in 2000.  I was very proud of the job that he did in his first term.  I will argue with anyone who says he handled things wrong after 911.  He did the absolute best he could.  I mean, come on, it was a devastating time for America!!  I also agreed when we went to to war.  Let’s be real here .. you CAN NOT come into America and just bomb and kill thousands of people and there not be repercussions.  They had our backs against the wall and we had to retaliate.

That being said, I was very torn in 2004.  I didn’t really have a good feeling about any of the candidates.  Did someone actually think they could do better than Bush?  They hadn’t lived 911 like he had.   But, was Bush the absolute best?  I didn’t know!  I felt like I picked him only bc he was already knee deep in everything, and I wanted to see him through.  That being said, I’ve been VERY disappointed with his second term and wonder what state our country would be in if another president had been elected instead of him.  We, as a country, are in hard times and something has GOT to give.

I still can’t decide what presidential candidate to back for this election.  I am not going to just vote Rep. or Dem. just bc that’s what I’ve done in the past.  I want to actually research the candidates and back someone up that I truly beleive in.  So who is that?  The conservative Republican that will surely keep this war going for 4 more years … or the liberal Democrat who’s not as experienced??  I’m pretty torn about it and wish one of them would do something to make my mind up!!

Thoughts??

 http://penndems.org/archives/199http://whoisjohnmccain.name/

 

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Joke of the Day

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 15, 2008

An insurance agent’s wife was learning to drive when the brakes gave out. “What should I do?” she cried. “Brace yourself, and try to hit something cheap.”

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Worst Name of the Day

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 14, 2008

Scott Peterson

Wouldn’t it SUCK to have that name these days? 

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Could Roxie be maturing in her old age??

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 13, 2008

Jason and I have a 8.5 year old Jack Russell Terrior.  She’s the most opinionated, human-esk dog you will ever meet.  It’s scary sometimes the qualities she has that are human-like.  She’s precious and we love her!

The thing about Roxie is, she THINKS she’s a human.  She has NEVER liked other dogs, hates them actually.  About five years ago before Jason and I got married I got a dog to “go” with her and I named her Jersey.  She’s a Jack Russell mix too, so I thought it would be cute.  I was WRONG.  She HATED that dog!!  They got in a HUGE fight where Jason had to tear them apart and he came out bloody!!  Shortly thereafter we got married and I had to give Jersey to my parents, where she is VERY happy.

Needless to say, Roxie hates other dogs, hates them …. we’ve always wanted another dog, but she won’t have it.

So fast forward and we are living in a new house we built a year ago.  Our next door neighbors moved in within days of us and their dog had just passed away, so they just got a new puppy.  It’s a poodle mix so it’s a pretty small pup.  While we were building the house we lived with Jason’s parents.  They have all kinds of trees, so there were always plenty of squirrels for her to chase.  So, she got used to chasing ground varmits.  Then we move into our house and our neighbors move in the same day.  That night, Roxie sees this little animal on the ground, assumes its a squirrel, and she chases our brand new neighbors brand new puppy into their house, around their kitchen, threw their den, and back out the door.  SO, needless to say Oscar (the neighbors dog) and Roxie did not start off on the right paw.

Each and every time Roxie goes outside to use the bathroom IF Oscar is out there too she goes into defensive mode .. barking like crazy, hair standing up, the whole nine yards .. UNTIL last week.  It was eerily quiet, I didn’t hear Roxie make a sound, I look outside and realize her and Oscar are playing and having a big ole time.  It’s CRAZY.

So, maybe we are a step closer to getting another dog! :)

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Black Widow Infestation

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 12, 2008

oregon spiders black widow

So over the last week Jason and I have seen and killed 6 black window spiders at my house.  I think it’s pretty safe to say we have a black widow infestation.  I’ve only seen a BWS once in my whole life before now, and that was when I was a little girl.  So it’s been kind of creepy to keep seeing them pop up around our house. 

Did you know that BWS are 15 times more venomous than a common rattlesnake?  Pretty freaky!!

So, needless to say, we are calling the bug man to kill these little creatures.  I hope they are gone soon bc I can’t stand being afraid that I might get bit every time I walk in and out of my house.

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Happy Birthday Jason

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 7, 2008

Happy Happy Birthday to my sweet husband Jason. 

Below are some pictures of him and I through the years!

April 2007

October 2006

March 2007

February 2007

December 2006

September 2006

January 2007

 

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Another quiz

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 6, 2008

I like these quizzes because you can get to know me a little better without me talking about myself all the time!

10 years ago:
I was 16.  When I was 16 I:

1. Attended a public school after 10 years in private schools 2. Joined the track team 3. Learned to drive a 1988 White, Ford, Station Wagon with – no a/c, no heat, no cd player, no door handles on the inside (they were plastic and broke off, so you had to unroll the window and reach around and open the door that way – dispite all that I was very happy to drive to school and on the weekends to my friends house.) 4.Went on my first date with a boy named Billy that was on the track team with me (he took me to ‘The Butcher Shop’ and then to see ‘The Big Lebowski’. 5. Loved going to youth group at church and hanging out with the D-Group girls (who 10 years later became the Supper Club girls)

Things on my to-do list today:
1. learn to like to cook 2. learn to do one load of laundry a day so the ‘moutain’ turns into a ‘pile’ 3. go to sleep earlier .. wait these sounds more like resolutions  …

What would I do if I was suddenly became a Billionaire?
Pay off my house, pay off Jason and I’s debt, then pay all me and Jason’s (the immediate 20 or so) family’s house debt, and other outstanding debt off, buy a house on the beach and in the mountains, quit my job, travel all over the world, buy a cool car, buy lots of diamond jewelry and just relax.

Three of my bad habits:
1. speeding 2. not calling people back  3. cussing in my head

Five jobs I have had:
1. Office Manager 2. Ophthalmic Assistant 3. Food Demonstrator 4. Cashier 5. Cashier

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Leaning on Him instead of on others

Posted by kerenmelissa on May 1, 2008

We live in a culture surrounded by busy-ness.  We are obsessed with talk shows, blogs, emailing, texting, talking on the phone, gossiping, ect ect.  So, when tragedy strikes, it’s no wonder we run straight to our group of friends, family member, coworkers, or any person willing to be a listening ear.  We want people’s input, advice, comfort, support and a shoulder to cry on.

Today I read the below devotional.  It speaks about how we are suppose to run to Jesus with our fears, hopes, anxieties, and tragedies.

I am not new to this concept.  Being raised in Church, I KNOW the protocol for ‘who shall I run to’ syndrome.  But, I’ll be the first to admit, it’s hard to remind myself to lean ONLY on God when hard times come.  I am not saying that we shouldn’t utilized the friends/family that God has blessed us with.  What I am saying is that He is supposed to be our refuge!  I don’t know about you, but every time I lean too much on someone/something other than God I get myself into a WHOLE heap of trouble.

It’s SO hard for me sometimes because you can’t feel Him, you can’t touch Him, you can’t hear Him, you can’t see Him, there’s no physical comfort from life’s “storms”  … but you know, that’s where Faith comes in.  Faith carries us in those lonely, depressing times.  I think God is showing His awesome-ness the most when we are spiritually/mentally/personally struggling bc He wants us to lean on Him!  AND the more we lean the easier it becomes! 

So, think about that next time you argue with your spouse, best friend, or loved one, or when your boss is a jerk at work, or you face a true tragedy .. don’t go ‘vent’ to a ‘listening ear’ vent to Him!  Maybe if we involved Him in our small every-day task, our lives would run smoother bc we are trusting Him each step of the way.

Just something to think about.

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Where Does Your Help Come From?
Wendy Pope
 
“I will lift up my eyes to the mountains; from where shall my help come?”
Psalm 121:1 (NASB)
         
Devotion:
Where does your help come from?  When crisis strikes, adversity hits, or sorrow shadows you, where do you go for help? How we answer this question truly reflects the depth of our belief that God is watching and waiting to come to our aid.  I will be the first to admit that there are times when I struggle to look to the right source for my help.
 
Recently I have been studying the Psalms. Before I took an in-depth look at Psalm 121, I did not understand what the writer was seeing as he wrote this plea for help. The terrain surrounding him was mountainous.  I’ve learned it was common for those walking by to look up in this mountainous landscape and see pagan worshippers worshiping their false gods on the mountaintops. When people had fears or needed a spell to ward off an evil spirit, they went to the mountaintops seeking help from the false gods, and pagan priests or priestesses. 
 
After learning of these practices, I listened to the Psalmist’s cry with a different ear. He knew what help was held in the mountains surrounding him. He looked up and saw many receiving false help from false gods, and he cried out,” I will lift up my eyes to the mountains; from where shall my help come?” Can you hear his plea?
 
Where does your help come from?  What false help awaits you on the mountaintop of your horizon?  In our day, there may not be a Baal, a sun priest, or a moon priestess on our mountains, but we turn to other sources of false help. Women all over the globe accept false hope from powerful media influences.  Whether it is from a magazine purchased in the grocery checkout line, a book from the self-help aisle, or a popular channel on the television, we can see false help. 
 
The next verse from the Psalmist’s pen is a declaration that I challenge us both to make. As women of faith, let’s turn off the false help of powerful media influences and declare with the Psalmist, “My help comes from the LORD, who made heaven and earth.” This declaration will no doubt make the enemy of our world angry.  He wants to keep our attention focused on the false help we have grown accustomed to receiving. He wants to keep us from the real, authentic, and loving help that comes from trusting the Maker of heaven and earth.
 
Will you accept the challenge?  Instead of choosing a familiar channel on the remote control, take the time you would normally spend watching television and find a quiet place to talk the One who offers real help for the  problems you may be facing. Refuse to purchase a new women’s magazine to read while in line or on your lunch hour, or chose a more wholesome one instead like the P31 Woman. Pick up your Bible and read about God’s perfect plan for your life, a plan to give you a hope and a future. Real help from a real God awaits you.

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